Where Have All ‘D’ Fathers Gone?
The Truth about so-called Family Courts


I am writing to WARN parents to stay away from  Family Court: having witnessed what they are doing for over five years, 1 and the zero accountability that applies to  Lieyers 2 and all other court officials. 3

After years of paying ($1,000 -- $2,000 per month) over and above  “Child Support”  to be a Father to my Daughter, I ran out of Money to pay to the Family Court’s cohort of Crooks, and soon afterward a Judge-Buddy said that I would have to be supervised for reading my Daughter a Bible Story from her Children’s Bible on Sunday morning: at her request. Shortly afterward I began filing cartoons with the court, and not long after the Judge retired to the back room: or so I was told (?).

The next Judge simply ignored the numerous well-documented fibs and told me to  get a job that pays more  IF I ever wanted to purchase more time with the State’s property. And so it was that another Father / Daughter relationship was Auctioned-Off for all it was worth (in this case about $120K) and another unethical parent rewarded for their willingness to Hire a Lieyer to play Family Court Chess 4 (in this case Billy the Kidnapper). 

I have since learned that single Moms obtain Sole Legal Custody in over 80% of disputed cases,  5 and that after the court games are over many Dads stop paying ($350-2K/ month)  – over and above Child Support – to visit with Mom’s Kids.

Because of a Throw-Away-Dad mentality, Divorced Fathers are often separated from their Children  – after being Robbed – while Moms make off with the Kids. It also happens to our soldiers who fight for our freedom overseas: and even when there is no evidence, or claims, of abuse.  6

Sanford Braver and his team of researchers spent 12 years looking into why so many Fathers walk away from their Children after a divorce. And what they found was so politically incorrect that few Americans have even heard of Professor Braver: much less the book he wrote on Divorce or the facts that he uncovered about the government monopoly that has been erected around the Divorce Industry: otherwise known as Family Court + Child Protection -- and/or abduction -- Services, Child (and Lieyer) Support Services.

For instance, Dr. Braver found only two reasons why a Divorced Father stops paying Child Support: one unemployment, and the other because he is needlessly and/or maliciously separated from his Children: often after his Assets, Bank Accounts, and Credit Cards are Looted by a cohort of Family Court Crooks. 7 It also happens to Moms as well, though less frequently: since  “Child Support” can be used to pay for things such as Rent, food, and/or (five years worth of) legal fees. 

I was skeptical when a friend predicted that I would lose custody of my Daughter after I ran out of Loot for a Lawyer, and informed me that our Courts are ran by Lieyers, Thieves, and Judge-Buddies. I became a believer after I saw for myself what they get away with, 8 and after what he said would happen actually took place, like it did with him and his son.

In Family Courts all over America, Children of Divorce are being SOLD to the Parent who offers up the most Money, and/or who generates it by making false allegations and/or complaints:  where  what  is  “Best for the Child”  often takes a back seat to what is best for the Atheists  9 and Extortionists Bank Accounts: and where other people’s children are used as pawns in the Game of Family Court Chess.

Consider also the following with regard to divorce and our Family Courts:

  1. According to Dr. Wade Horn, in 2002, one out of three children in the U.S. were growing up without their father living with them: 40 percent of who haven’t seen their father in the past year.

  2. A Lawyer who has False Disorder Syndrome and/or Selective Mutism: and is paid to tell Lies in court: in order to keep the Loot-Ball rolling and/or “win” the Kids for their client.

  3. Margaret Hagen, Ph.D., “Whores of the Court,” p. 233.

  4. A.K.A. “Family Court” or Kids & Loot.

  5. At http://trueequality.com/video.html the figure is said to be 83%. To verify this I was directed to Sanford Braver’s Divorced Dads: where we find that 10% of Dads become the custodial parent, 5% share 50/50 Joint Legal and Physical custody, and 77% lose custody to Mom and have to keep Paying above and beyond Child Support to maintain contact with their Children. This (77%) figure is only three years after filing for divorce. If we look further down the road it is higher simply because some Dads bank accounts, assets, and credit cards are not yet Looted and/or maxed out at the 3-year mark. For example, I had Joint Legal Custody until 5.5 years down Family Ct. Lane: after paying out $50,000 in legal and court related fees and $45,000 in Child & Lieyer Support. I have also talked to other Dads who lost custody after the 3-year mark. The director of the California Men’s Center, has said that between 83-93% of Mothers obtain Sole Legal Custody: meaning that 4-out-of-5 (or 9-out-of-10) Fathers are Bums, or that Something Else is going on?

  6. The Father’s War, by Stephen Baskerville; Whistleblower; June 2006; pp. 18-21.

  7. This is how “The System” works: to get as MUCH of the PIE as POSSIBLE.
    * If the Courts can get Dad to stop paying  Child & Lieyer Support, then Mom will likely file a
       complaint with the Department of Child Support Services.
    * When that happens the State becomes the Collection Police… and (then and only then) is
        allowed to tap into Uncle Sam’s Shake & Bake Bank Sale and non-stop printing press.
    * Therefore, the State-run Child Trafficking Courts are doing anything and everything to make Dads PAY over and
        above Child Support to be a Father to their Children. And thus they discourage Fathers from
        being Dads and encourage them to try to obtain some sort of Justice for what the courts routinely 
        do to -- to Steal ALL of their Assets, and then to -- RENT OUT other people's Children.
    * Such as to (try and) STOP PAYING for Children they can’t even afford to “visit.”
    * This way either the family court’s cohort of Crooks or the State get PAID whether Dad stays & 
         pays, or balks & walks.

    The Above Scenario is taking place all over the country: with Family Court officials getting One, Two, Three, or Four Child Support payments each month for using their microscopes to analyze and re-analyze fibs, minutia, false charges, and obviously false charges. And although having “both parents” involved in their Child’s life is sometimes mentioned, in reality, their importance PALES in comparison to how much CASH a Child of the State can bring: often $24,000/year per broken up family: and sometimes a LOT MORE. And the Looting goes on until a parent goes broke or walks away from their own child: because they can't afford to keep playing Family Court Chess.

  8. Multiple counts of fibbery, altering (multiple) transcripts, removing documents from the court record, extortion and kidnapping.

  9. Wiseman reported that 95% of psychologists and 55% of psychiatrists are atheists or agnostics. Psychiatry: The Ultimate Betrayal, Bruce Wiseman, pp. 13, 48. See also Ps. 14:1 and 53:1.

  10. Ann Coulter, 2008, Guilty, pp. 145-146.

  11. Ann Coulter, 2008, Guilty, pp. 33-71: plus 138 references.

  12. For example, Focus on the Family tells single moms not to worry if Dad isn’t around anymore: because Big Brother, Uncle Buck, or the Man Next Door can take his place.  And to my knowledge they have yet to interview even one "Deadbeat" in over 30-years of daily interviews on Family related topics. See also Zech. 11:16-17.

  13. Sanford Braver, 1998, Divorced Dads: Shattering the Myths, pp. 205-206.

  14. David Kupelian, The Marketing of Evil, 2005, p. 108. See book for additional references.

  15. Otherwise known as fibs.

  16. www.laryholland.com/serendipity.

  17. www.crispe.org/forum.

Copyright 2009,  Randy S. Berg

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